Bar/Bat Mitzvahs

Bar/Bat Mitzvahs

I am gearing up for a Bat Mitzvah that is taking place this month and am getting quite excited for it. As with a wedding, the planning process can be anywhere from 6 months all the way up to 1 or 2 years prior to the event date. The steps to planning such an event are also quite similar to a wedding in that a venue must be found, vendors must be hired, the décor and theme must be devised, invitations must go out, the menu must be created, and so on. The main difference, of course, is the momentous occasion being celebrated with one being the right of passage of adulthood and the other being the celebration of a couple joining together in matrimony.

Now, the two biggest factors in planning a Bar or Bat Mitzvah are the type of function you want to hold such as a kids only party or a kids & adult party and the activities or theme. With so many different venues to choose from in Michigan, you can really create the Bar/Bat Mitzvah of your son or daughter’s dreams. Here are some theme ideas that seem most popular in the area:

1.) Sports

a. Ski Party

b. Outdoor Adventure (Rock Wall Climbing)

c. Indoor Pool/Gym/Inflatable

2.) Movie/Music

a. Imax Theater (3D Movies)

3.) Dance

a. Dinner/DJ/Theme Band

As I mentioned there are some great venues to choose from in the area, so do your research or as always seek out the help of a professional planner to guide you through the process. Also, if you are looking for a non-traditional party, your planner can provide you with some great ideas on how best to accomplish that goal.

Bridesmaids Dresses

I was having dinner with a friend of mine whose sibling is getting married next fall(congrats again, by the way) and the talk turned to bridesmaids dresses. I love that brides have so many wonderful choices in terms of colors and styles when it comes to selecting a bridesmaids dress. In fact, it is completely acceptable to have the party wear the same color, but different style of dress to best match a body type and/or sense of style. Here are some pointers, however when you are giving your bridesmaids the power of choice:

1.) Select the same fabric that best reflects the time of year of your wedding

2.) Select the same shade of color (unless you want your maid of honor or junior bridesmaids to stand out)

3.) Select the same store to purchase the dresses

4.) If possible, select the same brand or designer

These perimeters will provide your brides with direction they need to find the right dress for your special day.